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Mary Edna Ross

Female 1879 - 1961  (81 years)

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  • Name Mary Edna Ross 
    Birth 2 Jun 1879  East Grand Forks, North Dakota Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Death 16 Mar 1961  Williston, North Dakota Find all individuals with events at this location 
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    • Ross-Bassett Story
      (An account of pioneer days in Dakota)
      By Mrs. L.V. (Mary E. Ross) Coulter

      My father, William Cashes Ross, and my mother, Clara Bassett, were
      married in the year 1872 at Kirksville, Missouri. They then came with father's
      father and mother, namely William Ross and Nancy Jane Molineaux Ross, to
      Minnesota, where father's folks settled on land near the city of Minneapolis.
      To father and mother, who were both courageous and ambitious, came word of
      alluring opportunities out in the new land of the Dakotas. So father ventured
      west to Dakota Territory, squatting on land where the city of Grand Forks,
      North Dakota now stands. This was the year of 1878. There father built a claim
      shanty 12' by 14', near the Great Northern right-of-way, for James J. Hill was
      then making a survey for his railroad.
      It was there on June 2nd, 1879 that the writer of this story, Mary
      Edna Ross, was born and spent her earliest childhood. Some memories of those
      early days remain; how, as the work on the railroad progressed, mother allowed
      us children to stand on a table and look through our one small window to watch
      our father as he worked along the railroad as section boss. Another time he
      was running an engine, perhaps of a work-train or switch-engine, I cannot be
      sure. He was mechanic and a blacksmith, having learned his trade in Missouri.
      Mother and father were now blessed with three children, their second
      child, Emilie, having been called by our Heavenly Father, and she was laid to
      rest at Grand Forks, Dakota Territory. Mother was a Christian and would say,
      "Thy will be done." She taught us to sing the songs she loved by the
      firelight of our stove, or the light of the moon which shone through our
      unblinded windows.
      Father soon moved to Turtle River and on March 15, 1886, another son,
      Clarence was born. From there we moved by team to Manvel, North Dakota, where
      father worked for some time in a sawmill.
      By now the railroad was building west. Father did not want to lose out
      letting too many go ahead of him. Again he loaded the family possession
      Among these was a sort of cupboard with screened doors known as a milk safe,
      which mother felt could just as well be left behind, as she did not thi
      there would be cows in the region where they were going. Father argued the
      safe might come in handy and he had his way.
      Father had heard of Devils Lake and had received a newspaper printed
      at Villard, Dakota Territory, so thither he was bound. We arrived at Villard
      after days and days of travel. While the horses drank from a creek, father
      walked up the hill where a man stood in the door of a shanty. Seeing him he
      called, "Hi, sir, how far to Villard?" The man smiled and said, "This is
      Villard." He continued, "It belongs to me. Bring your family and come over."
      So father called back to mother and she climbed down, and with all the little
      flock walked up to the cabin, there to meet the editor of "The Villard
      Leader", whose name was R.H. Copeland. He advised father to continue on to
      Minot, so we camped there that night and moved on the next day. It was very
      hot weather, and trouble was forthcoming for one of our horses took sick and
      died. Very well I remember that mother shed a few tears. Father asked her if
      she wanted to go back home, but she only shook her head and said, "Let's rest
      here awhile." So a small tent was pitched on a lake shore.
      It was while we were there that some discouraged folks who were headed
      east came upon us and, as father always said, we "struck up an acquaintance."
      While they had no horses to trade, they did have an old ox, well broke to work
      with a horse. Then and there did the milk safe prove its worth. These folks
      wanted the milk safe and father wanted the ox, so the trade was made, and we
      were on our way again. A day or two farther on we came upon some settlers with
      some ponies. They were not "broke" to drive, but they wanted father's ox, and
      so another trade was made.
      In those days a good many teams were freighting between Minot a
      Bismarck. One of them met us, and in talking to the driver, father learned
      that they were badly in need of a blacksmith at Minot. So then and there he
      left mother with the covered wagon and family, and rode one of the horses to
      Minot, telling us he would send someone to bring us in. This, of course, took
      a day or two. As if it were yesterday, I recall just how the man looked as
      he rode up to our wagon and said, "Mrs. Ross, you must be a brave woman
      Mother smiled and agreed with him, and in a day or two we arrived at Minot
      late at night. I was awakened by mother saying, "Wake up, dear, and see your
      father. He is shoeing horses." Just at the same moment I got the sme
      food, for someone was cooking supper for us, using the same fire at whi
      father worked while he was shoeing horses. A lean-to had already been built on
      the side of this shop. It was of boards, inch thick lumber, and covered with
      tar paper. The next morning a floor was laid and we moved in. No sooner was
      this accomplished than mother was called on by some railroad overseer w
      came to ask her if she would bake bread to help feed the men then at work on
      the railroad. So two large sheet iron stoves were moved in, and mother began
      the task of baking night and day. I remember she used the bottom half of two
      flour barrels for mixing pans. This she continued to do until one May morning
      in 1887 when a little daughter was born to her. While mother was still
      confined to her bed, Minot had its first fire. It was a serious one, for it
      burned almost every small business house along the street.
      By this time father had been appointed to the office of sheriff, and
      had moved the family into a more substantial frame building. A heavy post had
      been put through the floor into the ground in the center of this one-ro
      building. It served a double purpose, for while it supported the roof, at the
      same time it was used as a hitching post for such prisoners as were of a
      desperate type. Here they would be chained both hand and foot. At night father
      went to bed with them chained to himself; for as yet, Minot had no jail. When
      friends asked mother if she weren't afraid, she would say, "Oh, no, men have
      lots of respect for little children." The Indians at that time were not to be
      trusted. And, while they were the cause of many anxious days and nights, no
      harm ever came to us from them. Mother felt the Indians were quite considerate
      because they took only about one-half of whatever food they found. For
      instance if there were two loaves of bread, they took one, and with gestures,
      explained, "One for you, and one for me."
      Father soon tired of Minot as a home. The stockmen were now gaining
      way, and he was induced to take charge of a large band of sheep some thirty-five
      miles southeast of Minot, out yonder in the region of what is now Velva. So
      again we were off in our covered wagon, bound for a new home, this time in a
      log cabin on the Mitchell Ranch. It was a bitter cold winter, and feed and
      water were scarce. The sheep died by the hundreds, and by spring father had
      had enough of the sheep business. However, some stockmen living along t
      Mouse River persuaded him to take some five hundred head of cattle to a summer
      camp at some distance, in order to save the hay and feed along the river for
      the winter time. So again we were on our way.
      This time a wagon load of lumber with which to build a house
      accompanied us. Father and my brothers drove the cattle. It was only a two-day
      trip to the new location known as Cottonwood Lake, about seven miles north of
      Dogden (now known as Butte). In the lake there was quite a large island. Thus
      we would have protection from the cattle in case there should be a stampede.
      It proved to be a beautiful home spot, and mother and we children were
      extremely happy there.
      On the island there was quite a variety of wild fruits, and the wild
      songbirds and game. We caught some young wild geese, clipped their wings and
      tamed them. We had a rowboat which we used to cross the lake to a spring for
      all our drinking water. On our way we could catch fish for dinner. We made
      pets of the sand hill cranes which followed us about like pet dogs, and
      usually called us early in the mornings. We were up at daybreak and to bed at
      dark. A lamp was never lit unless someone became ill during the night; which
      was seldom indeed. Summer, as mother said, passed all too soon. The bleak cold
      weather of fall came on. It was time to go the twenty-five miles to winter
      range at a place known as Pendroy, which, by the way, was the post office at
      which we had gotten our mail through the summer months.
      We lived that winter on the bank of the Mouse River in a large one-
      room house, and we children walked about two miles to school. In 1890, along
      with the March winds, came another little sister. Times were very hard and
      father decided he better head back to Minot, where he might get wor
      When we were settled again in Minot, father became ill from a wound he
      received when shoeing horses, and was unable to work until late in the summer.
      He then went east to earn what he could in the harvest fields for the winter.
      When harvest was over, he came home suffering great pain all the time. Mother
      persuaded him to go to Grand Forks, North Dakota (North Dakota had become a
      state in 1889) for medical aid. There Dr. H. M. Wheeler operated on his limb,
      and after a time he came home, only to suffer much the same as befor
      In July, 1891, we had the added happiness of another little sister who
      came to live with us. That autumn father decided we could not live in Minot
      where there was rent to pay and other expenses of living in town. So he moved
      us twenty-five miles east of Minot to a log cabin on the bank of the Mouse
      River. This cabin was large and had two windows, but only a dirt floor. But
      that made little difference, for there was plenty of wood to burn, water to
      use and fish and wild game a-plenty. Again father took care of sheep belonging
      to the First National Bank of Minot, and so we lived on.
      There was a school about one mile from our home, which we attended. In
      this school there was a teacher and about fifteen scholars, with five little
      Rosses making up the number.
      During the summer of 1892, the Soo Railroad came up the valley past
      our home. This brought with it lots of excitement and made life more
      interesting for mother and all of us. About one and a half miles from us a
      town was started which was named Velva. That fall, an epidemic of typhoid fever
      broke out at Minot, and father went here to help nurse county patients. Mother
      and we children, with a sheep herder were left to care for home and the sheep.
      Nothing very exciting ever happened in our little household.
      Mother received lots of letters from her home back east, and sometimes
      a package would come with some little treat for us all. We children would look
      forward to those packages so much that we would walk day after day to the post
      office, only to come home disappointed and some days almost frozen. On one of
      those occasions mother comforted us by telling us not to give up, for there
      would be a package for us in a few days. Full well she knew, for on December
      5th, 1892, she gave birth to a son who was named Henry Ernest. Oh, wh
      package of joy, for we were tiring of baby sisters. Our much loved baby
      brother was about a month old before father ever saw him. Father was very fond
      of his little ones, but inclined to be gruff in his speech. Looking at the new
      baby boy, he said, "Hey, there, soldier, how did you get here?". This of
      course amused us all. Little did mother or father know then or even dream that
      in time this son would grow to manhood, and then one day he would enlist in
      the World War as a soldier with the United States Marine Corps, there to serve
      and finally on August 28th, 1919, give his life by drowning in the Artibonite
      River in Haiti, where troops had been retained to keep order even after the
      Armistice was signed. Henry Ernest Ross enlisted at Billings, Montana and at
      the time of his tragic death was with the 36th Company, 2nd Regiment, U.S.
      Marine Corps. His last address was Port au Prince, Haiti. Mother was spared
      this great sorrow as she was called to her Heavenly home when he was but five
      years of age. In the mean time, two more little sisters had come, and when the
      youngest was ten days old, mother was called from her earthly home, On October
      14th, 1897.
      Clara Bassett Ross was the daughter of Robert Bassett and Mary
      Elizabeth Farlin Bassett. They were of New England stock. Tradition has it
      that there was a Bassett on the "Mayflower", and afterwards large numbers of
      that name came to America on the good ship "Fortune". Robert Bassett lost his
      mother in his infancy, and his father when a boy of seven. He grew to manhood
      in Granger and Lincoln County, Ohio. Then he went to Athens County where he
      met and married Mary Farlin. Both were of Scotch ancestry, and of strong
      Christian faith. They raised a large family and are resting now in a cemetery
      at Kirksville, Missouri.
      William Ross was the oldest son of William Ross and Nancy Jane Ross.
      The Ross family originally came from Scotland, and settled in Ireland where
      Grandfather William Ross was born and grew to manhood. He then came to America
      and, at Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, on the 27th day of October, 1840, in
      accordance with the law, he became a citizen of the United States. William Ross
      and Nancy Jane Ross reared a large family. They were of the Presbyterian
      Church, lived for many years at Minneapolis, Minnesota, and are buried there
      in Lakewood Cemetery. My mother, Clara Bassett Ross, died October 14th, 1897
      at Williston, North Dakota, and is buried at Williston in the Riverview
      Cemetery. On her tombstone there has been inscribed the name of her soldier
      son, Henry Ernest Ross, whose body was never recovered from the water. Father
      had moved his family to Williston, North Dakota in 1895.
      After mother's death he went west to Montana, then on to Washington,
      where he spent the last twenty years of his life in the employ of McCleary
      Brothers Lumber Company. There he married again, and in 1920, at about the age
      of eighty-two passed away and is buried in McCleary, Washingto
      Twelve children were born to my parents. Six of them are now living.
      I am the oldest of these, and have written out this record of their lives as a
      tribute to my parents who suffered many hardships along with other pioneers.
      Through it all they did not complain but carried on with the fine courage that
      urged them always to do their best. I have also had in mind to honor my
      brother, Henry Ernest, as a son of early pioneers of the Dakotas, a devoted
      soldier, who, in the end, gave his life in the service of his country. In his
      memory I was included on the Gold Star Mother's pilgrimage to the battlefields
      of France and scenes of the World War, sailing on the "Roosevelt" on August
      19, 1931, and returning in October on the "George Washington". Because of my
      brother's service, I am a member of the Auxiliary of the Edgar M. Boyd Post of
      the American Legion at Williston, North Dakota.
    Person ID I15463  1A William Bassett of Plymouth
    Last Modified 23 Sep 2011 

    Father William Cashes Ross,   b. 27 Oct 1840, Pennsylvania Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 27 Nov 1920 (Age 80 years) 
    Relationship Natural 
    Mother Clara Bassett,   b. 20 Jul 1853, Meigs County, Ohio Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 14 Oct 1897 (Age 44 years) 
    Relationship Natural 
    Marriage 1872  Kirksville, Missouri Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F04304  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Unknown Coulter   d. Deceased 
    Family ID F06170  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart