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Shirley P. Bassett

Female Abt 1922 - 2006  (84 years)

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  • Name Shirley P. Bassett 
    Birth Abt 1922  Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Death 2 Apr 2006  Middlesex Hospital Hospice Unit Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Notes 
    • The Hartford Courant, 5 Apr 2006
      Shirley Bassett Ely (picture included)

      Shirley Bassett Ely of Essex, died on Sunday, (April 2nd, 2006)
      peacefully at the Middlesex Hospital Hospice Unit after a long struggle with
      Parkinson's Disease. She was 84 years old.

      Mrs. Ely was born in Indianapolis, IN on May 17, 1921, the daughter of the late
      H. Lee Bassett and Elizabeth Paige Bassett. Her family moved from Columbus,
      Indiana to Shaker Heights, OH, where she graduated from the Hathaway Brown
      School. She attended Pine Manor Junior College and Rollins College, where she
      met her husband, Matthew G. Ely, Jr. She was married on June 20, 1942 in Shaker
      Heights, Cleveland, OH.

      She raised three energetic boys in Pelham, NY and still found time to be very
      active in many volunteer organizations: The Junior League, signing with the
      League Larks, The Manor Club, serving on the Boards of Directors of both the
      Child Guidance Council of New Rochelle and The Pelham Visiting Nurse
      Association, and providing "Meals on Wheels" to shut-ins. She was an active
      member of the Huguenot Memorial Church in Pelham and a member of the Shenorock
      Shore Club in Rye. The family summered at Griswold Point, Old Lyme.

      After moving to her husband's family home in Old Lyme in 1984, she continued to
      volunteer at the Florence Griswold Museum, The Woman's Exchange and as a
      Director of the Visiting Nurse Association. She was a member of the Fir
      Congregational Church of Old Lyme, the Old Lyme Country Club, and the Black
      Hall Beach Club. She enjoyed tennis, golf, swimming, knitting, needlepoint,
      and piano.

      She is survived by her loving husband Matthew G. Ely, Jr., her
      sons: Matthew G. Ely III MD and his wife Susan of West Hartford; Timothy B.
      Ely and his wife Laura of Fairfield; Dwight C. Ely Sr. and his wife Marie of
      Trumbull. She leaves her five loving grandchildren: Collin, Melissa,
      Elizabeth, Kate and Chip Ely. She is predeceased by her brother, Duncan Lee
      Bassett and sister, Elizabeth French. She is survived by her devoted sister,
      Joanne Stevenson of Essex. A Memorial Service will be held 1:30 p.m. on
      Saturday, April 8th at the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme. A private
      burial service will be held at the Griswold Cemetery in Old Lyme. In lieu of
      flowers, please send donations in her memory to The Memorial Music Fund of the
      First Congregational Church, 2 Ferry Road, Old Lyme, CT, 06371; or the Essex
      Meadows Scholarship Foundation, Essex Meadows, 30 Bokum Rd, Essex, CT 06426.
    Person ID I27675  1A William Bassett of Plymouth
    Last Modified 23 Sep 2011 

    Father Henry Lee Bassett,   b. Abt 1889, Ohio Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Deceased 
    Relationship Natural 
    Mother Elizabeth Paige 
    Relationship Natural 
    Family ID F09012  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Matthew Griswold Ely, Jr.,   b. 10 Oct 1916, New York City, New York Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 24 Apr 2014, Essex, Connecticut Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 97 years) 
    Marriage Private 
    Family ID F10663  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart